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Have you ever been obsessed with someone?
How are we defining obsessed?
As in; you’re checking their social media even when you’ve deleted the apps to give yourself a break.
…How’re you checking their accounts then?
No I don’t think I’ve ever gone that far. Is this an ex? Or an old rival or something?
Um…if I had to define it I’d probably say a frenemy?
Like a nemesis.
Oh, I like that. We love each other, but we have some history. Rivals who are totally obsessed- like socks and sandals.
…Did you just half quote Bob’s Burgers?
I love it. And the answer is still no.
I split with my boyfriend.
Really? Didn’t you guys just get together?
Eh, sort of? I guess?
So what happened?
I just realized we weren’t compatible.
It was more than little things. It was…core aspects of our personalities and after my last relationship I just didn’t want to waste everyone’s time again.
I mean…if it’s not working then it just isn’t working. Better to cut it short and like you said; not waste their time. I think we sometimes fall into this feeling of “needing to stay” out of some sort of obligation, but that’s a trap and learning how to avoid it is priceless for everyone involved.
How’d they take it?
Pretty well, considering.